The world is a frenetically energetic, wildly daring place. As we glide from grain to chaotic grain, we get stuck in the knots of drama. Forgetting to breathe, we miss the opportunities within the grain — the places where we foster peace.
Late last week, I found myself once again preparing to “fight the good fight.” Sanding down the uneven boards in the world floor even when I do not have the right tools or the am not even invited into the house with buckled floors. I forget that I have no control over the outcome of much of what impacts me. Instead of being a change agent, I get twisted in the drama. My fight is less about good and more about being reactionary.
Fighting a good fight tears in to the fabric of a nonviolent stance. In fact, when we fight, we often find ourself reacting in anticipation of the violence that may be perpetrated by another. Instead of ping ponging from one good battle to another, I take a breath and rest in one of the sanded places of peace. I remind myself that it is time to let go of my desired outcomes. I accept that my only control is in my response or reaction to any given situation.
Instead of fighting the good fight, I act within my circle of influence. Only within this sphere am I able to choose who and what I can impact. I recognize that my sphere of influence grows organically not by force but by personal power. I am organically drawn to what I can transform. Others are drawn to me as they transform. The boundaries of my sphere blur — it evolves as I impact others and they impact me — together we are peace.
Maybe next time instead of fighting the good fight, I will be more discerning about the “good” in which I expend my energy. I will no longer fight — instead I will be a shining light of peace that illuminates a different path.
Vanessa F. Hurst, ms, is a Mindful Coach, Neural Synchrony™ facilitator, Professional Speaker, and Author who weaves her inner wisdom into all she touches. Vanessa assists clients in navigating their life paths with intuition. Her books are A Constellation of Connections: Contemplative Relationships and Engaging Compassion Through Intent & Action. Contact Vanessa @ vanessa@intentandaction.com for keynotes, programs, and consultations.
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