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Later I found myself reflecting on the second half of that
quote from Julian of Norwich, “in the manner of all things all will be well.” I
wondered that if I truly believed all would be well, how do I find the “well”
amid the turmoil and tumult in my life? In those moments I am challenged to
look beyond the discord and find the pockets of grace — those pockets of “well-ness.”
Often I discover these pockets by reframing the challenges — finding and
celebrating the positive even if it is to recognize that the outcome could have
been worse. Re-patterning is finding the grace in increments.
Early this summer I was called the “queen of spin” because I
reframed some not-so-sweet happening in order to reveal the grace that lay
waiting to be discovered under the muck. For me, the search for the grace was a
choice: I could choose to flop around in the mud and wait for a miraculous
downpour to wash my life clean of the challenge. Or, I could experience the muckiness and
discover the beauty and grace that lay hidden just beyond my misery.
When I allow myself to wallow in the muck, eventually the
sun comes out. That pesky sun dries the mud. Have you tried to dig yourself out
of dirt, hardened clay? Not a pleasant or easy proposition. Instead of waiting,
I can proactively take a long, loving look at the muddy real and search
intently in “the manner of all things” for what is well.
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In those moments when I look beyond the surface and discover
the benefits hidden in the mud, I am amazed at what I see. The mud is not just
a goopy-filled watering hole. The mud is something to apply like a clay facial.
A clay masque applied to your skin has many benefits. As it hardens, impurities
are drawn out and our skin is firmed and toned.
After the facial, I shine with the same internal light, but
the illumination is cast is a different, profound way. I am touched in
grace-filled ways by the mud that hardened and then washed away.
What is being released and revealed by the mud of your
challenges?
In the manner of all things how are you well?
Peace & All Good, Vanessa
www.healingwillow.com
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